Women’s Sexual Health Matters

September is National Sexual Health Awareness Month. This year, Weill Cornell Medicine is focusing on women’s sexual health for a simple reason. 

“Sexual health is such an important topic for women that is often underrepresented in discussions about women’s health and one-on-one doctor-patient encounters,” says Dr. Sharon Parish, professor of medicine in clinical psychiatry at Weill Cornell Medicine and attending physician at NewYork-Presbyterian Westchester Division. “Sexual health and sexual function, satisfaction and intimacy are central to well-being, happiness and overall quality of life, so don’t be embarrassed to discuss these with your women’s health provider.” 

Here are a few things to know about female sexual health. 

Painful Intercourse Is Common and Treatable 

If you experience pain during sexual intercourse (dyspareunia), you’re not alone. The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists states that nearly 75% of women have the experience at least once in life. 

Sometimes, painful sexual experiences are the result of gynecologic health conditions, including: 

  • Contact dermatitis. Scented douches, soaps or lubricants may irritate the vulva. As a result, you experience symptoms, such as painful intercourse or itching. 
  • Injured perineum. You may experience a tear or incision in the area between the anus and vulva (perineum) when giving birth. This can lead to pain during postpartum sexual activity. 
  • Pelvic inflammatory disease. Often caused by a sexually transmitted infection, this disease may affect the uterus, fallopian tubes or nearby pelvic structures. Along with painful intercourse, you may get a fever, bleeding between periods or during sex and other unwanted symptoms. 
  • Vaginal dryness. Perimenopause, menopause and other life changes can lower your body’s production of estrogen. When this occurs, you may also experience vaginal dryness. 
  • Vaginitis. A yeast or bacterial infection inflames the vagina, leading to burning and itching sensations, along with discharge. 

Thankfully, the proper treatment can often help overcome these issues that affect women’s sexual health. Your women’s health provider may recommend physical therapy, medication or surgery based on your condition.  

Additionally, you can take steps at home to reduce pain. Water- or silicon-based lubricants or vaginal moisturizers are available over the counter. 

“They can improve comfort,” Dr. Parish says, “which might change the game completely.” 

Sexual Arousal and Women’s Sexual Health 

Not interested in sex? Have a hard time getting aroused, even in romantic settings with your partner? You may have a sexual dysfunction known as hypoactive sexual desire disorder (HSDD). 

“If you’re experiencing a distressing loss of sexual desire, bring it up with your doctor,” Dr. Parish says. “There may be an intervention or medical treatment available for you.” 

Diagnosing and treating this sexual health condition can include ruling out other potential causes. Physical issues often linked to HSDD include:

Use of certain medications for high blood pressure, pain and other conditions 

Your health provider also considers mental health issues that can bring on sexual dysfunction. These include: 

  • Anxiety  
  • Depression 
  • Stress caused by problems in a romantic relationship 

Once your OBGYN or other health provider identifies the cause of your condition, treatment can begin. You may benefit from one or more of the following: 

  • Medication to help manage mental health issues, correct chemical imbalances or treat chronic conditions 
  • Physical therapy for strengthening your pelvic floor and reducing urine leakage 
  • Surgery to treat incontinence and other health conditions that prevent you from desiring sex and reaching orgasm 
  • Therapy on your own or with your partner 

A Major Threat to Women’s Sexual Health  

Though sexual intercourse is natural and healthy, it can lead to serious health problems. By participating in unprotected sexual contact, you put yourself at risk for various sexually transmitted infections (STIs). 

Your STI risk increases when you engage in unprotected anal sex with men, but the Office on Women’s Health states that you may also contract an STI if you have sexual contact with a woman who has never had sexual relations with a man. 

Left untreated, STIs can cause serious complications, such as: 

  • Chronic pelvic pain 
  • Ectopic pregnancy, which can be life-threatening 
  • Infant mortality 
  • Infertility 

If you’re sexually active, talk with your health provider about STI testing. These simple tests can detect infections before symptoms arise, allowing you to treat the condition as early as possible. 

The Menopause Effect on Women’s Sexual Health 

“Midlife and the menopausal transition can affect sexual function and sexual satisfaction,” Dr. Parish says. “The biggest complaint or concern I hear is vaginal dryness and pain with intercourse or sexual activity.”  

Dr. Parish explains that when menopause brings an end to menstruation, this reduces hormone production. When you experience symptoms and physical changes in the genitourinary tract, you have genitourinary syndrome of menopause (GSM). You may experience a reduced sex drive, discomfort during intercourse or other issues. 

Treatment options for GSM include: 

  • Localized estrogen therapy. Hormonal therapy is the gold standard for GSM treatment. Your estrogen therapy may come in a cream, capsule or other form. The goal is to reduce symptoms by increasing the amount of estrogen within the vagina. 
  • Lubricants and moisturizers. A non-hormonal lubricant can provide immediate short-term relief from vaginal dryness. Moisturizers, when used regularly, may provide longer-lasting improvement. 
  • Systemic estrogen therapy. If you have hot flashes or other menopausal symptoms along with GSM, systemic estrogen therapy increases estrogen throughout your body.  

Midlife presents other potential obstacles to women’s sexual health. Chronic conditions, such as high cholesterol, high blood pressure and diabetes, can reduce blood flow throughout your body, affecting your sex life. Work with your provider to manage these conditions. 

No matter what causes sexual health issues, be upfront and honest with your health provider.  

“You don’t have to live with a diminished quality of life,” Dr. Parish says. “Be brave and bring it up with your women’s health provider. Do that, and you’ll go a long way in taking care of yourself.” 

Looking for an expert who can help guide you toward greater sexual function and fulfillment? Find a doctor at Weill Cornell Medicine today. 

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